in yesterday’s post i didn’t mean to give the impression that we are despondent. we are sad, but at the end of the day, this is an inconvenience.

the divorce rate for parents of multiples is incredibly high. while charles and i do have our fair share of spats, we are together. we have the mindset that divorce is not an option. our children are healthy. our children are happy (except when they’re not allowed to have chicken nuggets). i am so grateful that that i process quickly, that he forgives readily.

money is just money.

at the end of the day, we have family and friends who support us. we love and we are loved. we have faith. we can wake up and know the sun is shining. and if it is cloudy, we know the sun will shine again.

it’s just money.

(not to say i don’t wish we had it back).

but it’s just money.

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  1. Dad aka gdad Blake April 10, 2008 at 11:58 pm

    One truism I have never forgot is the one adhered to by Baptists of which your mother is one.
    Divorce-NEVER
    Murder -UMMM
    I never want to test that.
    Love to all……Dad

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  2. Hmmm, I’d watch out for Dad if I were your mum.
    Hope you can make the trip after all.

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  3. your dad=sweet.
    your blog, your feelings
    4thou is a lot of money and to lose it like would make any normal person throw up.

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  4. your dad=sweet.
    your blog, your feelings
    4thou is a lot of money and to lose it like would make any normal person throw up.

    Reply

  5. bummer about the tickets… miss you guys lots and lots…maybe you’ll get the $$ back but it will only be in the form of tickets to San Antonio and you’ll be forced to come visit us for your vacation…its not BC and “cool” cananada… ok so its big time wishful thinking!! more soon xo Lyns

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  6. Ummmm Divorce is not for all for sure ,, ( I am filing tomorrow ),, you and Charles are the couple I look up to 🙂
    Something will work out ,, I am sure .
    Love Auntie Pammie xoxoo

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  7. You always write with such love… it is an inspiration.
    My hubby and i do not “believe” in divorce either although with two under threes that has been tested. I run with the knowledge that financial streess and the children will all sort itself out one way or another…thanks for you honesty

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  1. Dad aka gdad Blake April 10, 2008 at 11:58 pm

    One truism I have never forgot is the one adhered to by Baptists of which your mother is one.
    Divorce-NEVER
    Murder -UMMM
    I never want to test that.
    Love to all……Dad

    Reply

  2. Hmmm, I’d watch out for Dad if I were your mum.
    Hope you can make the trip after all.

    Reply

  3. your dad=sweet.
    your blog, your feelings
    4thou is a lot of money and to lose it like would make any normal person throw up.

    Reply

  4. your dad=sweet.
    your blog, your feelings
    4thou is a lot of money and to lose it like would make any normal person throw up.

    Reply

  5. bummer about the tickets… miss you guys lots and lots…maybe you’ll get the $$ back but it will only be in the form of tickets to San Antonio and you’ll be forced to come visit us for your vacation…its not BC and “cool” cananada… ok so its big time wishful thinking!! more soon xo Lyns

    Reply

  6. Ummmm Divorce is not for all for sure ,, ( I am filing tomorrow ),, you and Charles are the couple I look up to 🙂
    Something will work out ,, I am sure .
    Love Auntie Pammie xoxoo

    Reply

  7. You always write with such love… it is an inspiration.
    My hubby and i do not “believe” in divorce either although with two under threes that has been tested. I run with the knowledge that financial streess and the children will all sort itself out one way or another…thanks for you honesty

    Reply

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ABOUT AUTHOR
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a 34 year old mother of four.

RECENT POSTS
BREAD AND THE BAD BIT

Are sandwich letters a bad thing? You know sandwich letters, you’ve received one before, everyone has. They’re an impersonal form of rejection. Think back to

More precious than silver

Love comes in many forms. It isn’t my dad’s birthday, and it certainly isn’t Father’s Day, but today I want to dedicate my blog to

ohhh…THAT blue dress girl

monica lewinsky was on the cover of a magazine the other day. she is a person i have a great deal of sympathy for. bill

Water: essential or a loved luxury?

when i first moved to hong kong in may 1997, charles and i were had student loans and virtually no capital. his contract was ending

Face it, its a facelift

This weeks’ cover of people magazine sees hollywood babes denigrate plastic surgery. they all do. yet no one is getting older in that celluloid, cellulite